Short Cummings Audio presents Happily Domesticated » realtionships http://www.shortcummingsaudio.com Life -- In Funny, Six-Minute Slices Sat, 24 Jul 2010 07:15:23 +0000 en hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.0 Every episode features a new funny story. Think Erma Bombeck with a PC, Dave Barry with recording software or Garrison Keillor with a microphone... Oh, wait. Strike that last one. If you enjoy clean humor and a slightly skewed perspective on family life (I have two teenage sons...of course my life is skewed-up) please give this show a listen. Kevin Cummings clean Kevin Cummings KevinLeeC@yahoo.com KevinLeeC@yahoo.com (Kevin Cummings) 2006-2010 Life -- In Funny, Six-Minute Slices humor, humor essay, funny, funny story, shortcomings Short Cummings Audio presents Happily Domesticated » realtionships http://assets.farpointmedia.net/shortc/images/shortc.albumart.144.jpg http://www.shortcummingsaudio.com #140 — How to Turn an Argument into a Fight http://www.shortcummingsaudio.com/2009/02/140-how-to-turn-an-argument-into-a-fight/ http://www.shortcummingsaudio.com/2009/02/140-how-to-turn-an-argument-into-a-fight/#comments Sat, 14 Feb 2009 07:15:50 +0000 Kevin http://www.shortcummingsaudio.com/?p=837

The difference between an argument and a fight is the difference between a border skirmish and a full-on invasion. An argument is the sort of impassioned discussion you see in the U.S Congress when it comes to hot-button topics like Bioethics, Campaign Finance Reform, and whose turn it is to pick up the check in the Senate cafeteria. A fight is the kind of no-holds-barred brawl that breaks out in third-world parliaments and is usually seen on the “News of the Weird” segment sandwiched between the story about the dog in the tutu and the water-skiing squirrel. An argument can strain your relationships, a fight can completely destroy them.

Turning an argument into a fight is easy if you know what you’re doing. Sadly, many people only manage to start fights by accident. They get into arguments and stumble about inefficiently trying to see the other person’s point-of-view, offering compromise solutions, and generally dragging things out far longer than necessary. With a few simple skills and a little planning, you can go from discussing the weather to permanently parting company with someone in less time than it takes the average burger joint to get an order right.

Let’s be honest, a lot of your arguments are going to wind up as fights anyway, so why not learn to be as efficient as possible? In the interest of public service, let me tell you how to turn an argument into a fight.

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]]> http://www.shortcummingsaudio.com/2009/02/140-how-to-turn-an-argument-into-a-fight/feed/ 0 family,marriage,realtionships - The difference between an argument and a fight is the difference between a border skirmish and a full-on invasion. An argument is the sort of impassioned discussion you see in the U.S Congress when it comes to hot-button topics like Bioethics, The difference between an argument and a fight is the difference between a border skirmish and a full-on invasion. An argument is the sort of impassioned discussion you see in the U.S Congress when it comes to hot-button topics like Bioethics, Campaign Finance Reform, and whose turn it is to pick up the check in the Senate cafeteria. A fight is the kind of no-holds-barred brawl that breaks out in third-world parliaments and is usually seen on the “News of the Weird” segment sandwiched between the story about the dog in the tutu and the water-skiing squirrel. An argument can strain your relationships, a fight can completely destroy them. Turning an argument into a fight is easy if you know what you're doing. Sadly, many people only manage to start fights by accident. They get into arguments and stumble about inefficiently trying to see the other person's point-of-view, offering compromise solutions, and generally dragging things out far longer than necessary. With a few simple skills and a little planning, you can go from discussing the weather to permanently parting company with someone in less time than it takes the average burger joint to get an order right. Let's be honest, a lot of your arguments are going to wind up as fights anyway, so why not learn to be as efficient as possible? In the interest of public service, let me tell you how to turn an argument into a fight. -=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-= Like this excerpt? Want the whole story? Listen to the audio version by clicking the 'Play' button at the top of this post. -=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-= Notes: * I'm thrilled to be part of the Farpoint Media family of podcasts.  You can find more great shows at the Farpoint Media home page at: http://www.farpointmedia.net (http://www.farpointmedia.net) * You can experience Konrad's comic A Quartz Bead at: http://kokoart.net/quartz/index2.php?comic_ang=1 Kevin Cummings clean